The Power of Words

This week, I've been reminded constantly about the power of words. As a pastor and preacher, I deal with unleashing the word almost every day. I notice the power of words to bring healing and hope. I witness the power of words to tear down and destroy.

I've had the opportunity this week to be challenged by the words that have left my mouth. In two instances, both on the same day, I was highly aware of my words and how they shaped the people around me. The first instance was at the school where I volunteer teach a couple of hours three times a week. A student, who does not follow directions and is often inappropriate, decided to talk back to me. In a torrent of words (not yelling, but being very clear and direct), I expressed my disappointment and reiterated my expectations related to classroom behavior.

Later that same day, I had a conversation with two young persons related to their behavior in the church. I will admit that their behavior was distracting to myself and to others, and really did not allow people to focus their attention on God. I spoke calmly to them, but I also laid out my expectations and reasons for being disappointed in their behavior.

The reactions to my use and choice of words were polar opposites. One youth was on the verge of tears; another seemed indifferent; the child in the classroom was almost defiant. Our words have the power to bring out the worst or the best in someone. Proverbs 18:21 says that "the tongue has the power of life and death...", so we ought not take the power of words lightly. They can build up or destroy our spirits. Words can wound or heal; regardless, we must remember that our words have power. We must choose and use them wisely.